Given the recent statistics on divorce and relationships, it appears that a relationship requires a lot of hard work and effort. Whatever happens, the Hollywood happy ending that we all try to achieve?
In fact, relations need to do a lot of hard work. These efforts, however, not be too heavy and tend to pay exponentially. After the honeymoon phase when everything is new, not more, but more familiar, we tend to think that the other person for grantedTo escape to invest more in private.
David Schnarch, world-renowned sex therapist and marriage, once said: "Cellulite and sexual potential are closely related." What he meant, this statement is that the older a couple growing together, the greater intimacy and better sex. In fact, studies show that intimacy and sexual pleasure are potentially at 50-60 years. This is achieved by the quality of intimacy that can be left to grow with the maturity to feelreally aware of your partner and learn more about each other to a higher level.
So here are suggestions for a report can increase the intimacy of ten:
Trivia: Be curious about your partner (ask how his day was to listen and ask questions).
Appreciate it: let them know you appreciate them (part of a newspaper with their gratitude for the things we appreciate about them).
Open: Let your best friend (Say your dreams, goals becomeFears and uncertainties)
Rituals: Set up routine rituals (plan a romantic date to get together once a month for an activity).
Show affection: hugging, kissing and holding hands. These little touches can say what words often can not.
Congratulations: Giving a compliment is an easy way for someone special. Mark Twain once said: "I can live for two months on a good compliment."
Celebrate positive events together: if one partner of a positive event (raise, promotion, celebratespremium, personal goal, etc.), you must celebrate the two partners. This creates a feeling of solidarity and intimacy.
constructive management of conflicts: when interpersonal conflicts arise between the partners to challenge the conduct, rather than the person ("I do not like when you ..." instead of "You're a. ..") This way of communication conflict and enable growth.
Small gifts: use your imagination to show little ability to provide care (you leave a note to create a lovestrategic location, a love message on the answering machine, etc.)
Make everyday life of Valentine's Day: Do not wait until Feb. 14 to show the care with the purchase of flowers or a romantic evening. Make these small efforts throughout the year from one of these proposals and see your relationship flourish.
